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- A GP or primary-care doctor can raise or refer sexual-health concerns without it going any further than that conversation — and they have heard this before, many times.
- Sexual-health clinics see this as ordinary clinical work, not as anything to be embarrassed about.
- Certified sex therapists and AASECT-listed counsellors specialise in exactly this and are often covered, or partly covered, by insurance.
- If a relationship is the pressure point, a couples counsellor is often more useful than reading alone.
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